Racism Is A Pandemic Too: A Black Agenda Guide

With so much that we have experienced as a black community since 1619. Our ancestors and leaders have drafted plans, guided us and continue to show us the way. Listening to speeches from Fannie Lou Hamer, Harriet Tubman, Marcus Garvey, Martin Luther King Jr., Malcolm X, James Baldwin, Huey P. Newton, etc. You can see that there is this underlying reinforcement of how we should take care of our own. We often talk about the Jews, Asians and other communities that understand self-preservation. They understand radical self-care and what it means to put the collective first. As those living under the Western doctrine, we often get sucked into the individualistic mindset. The Black Agenda is not about dividing and further perpetuating racism, it is about the need to self soothe and take care of home first.

The world is literally going through healing stages. So, have those tough conversations, protest or get some rest. Donate to causes that matter, teach yourself on how to create wealth and make your income work for you. Reach out to an “enemy” and make amends. Release any tension you have amongst your own and fully love yourself to love someone else.

Now let’s get into the black Agenda:

1. We shall all come together and stop any personal disputes within our race.

2. Continue to tear down all non-black businesses and corporations until they support our cause. This does not have to be physically tearing down, but not spending with them and using their platforms . Boycotting- You see how they are all supporting the movement and shifting funding……Stay woke.

3. Build our own businesses and communities. The elite African American come together and plan how to allocate funding. With 1.5 Trillion as a black community, we would be the 9th richest nation. What if we get a committee together, create an expense/budget/finance department and allocate funding to rebuild cities and black communities. This would further create employment opportunities access to wealth, educational pipelines, etc. I wonder if these were steps to build black wall street, I mean the blueprint is there.

a. We need shelter, food, and water- These are the supplies we start with: build businesses that supply these services; real estate/rental property- sell to your own people. House our own. Grocery stores; feed your own. Water- we know theirs is not clean. Clean and distribute our own

This will address the Maslow Hierarchy of Needs. If we want to fight the new form of slavery Steve Biko describes it as being a psychological form of slavery and in order to do take the psychological chains off, a person must be on the path to reach self-actualization. They must be in a safe space to fully address their trauma, inner child, maladaptive behaviors, etc.

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b. Hospitals: we must get all our healthcare professionals together; Doctors, nurses, psychologist, psychiatrist , Psychotherapist, counselors, social workers, phlebotomist, pharmacist, etc. We can build our own research lab that has culturally competent evidence-based practices and approaches that truly heal our people and not place band aids over it.

c. Get our own Marketing/ Entertainment team: Create our own communication/ networks/ platforms etc. TIKTOK, Facebook/twitter/etc.

d. Engineer, cyber security, technology,- you understand where I am going

4. Arm yourself. We can build our own military. Our own police force. Community support work. Even if it’s just learning defense techniques. Learn your gun laws in your state.

5. We have our own banks- build and put your money there. If you are not banking black, we are not doing this right. Remember that all businesses have growing pains and quantity and quality can help.

6. All the essential businesses workers that were working during COVID; we need to build those businesses and make them black owned

7. Put pressure on Biden: this is not a con trick. We want our needs to be put first! Address police brutality, healthcare for all and make it culturally competent, equality for all- African Americans. We want to be bailed out as well and funding specific needs for us, is extremely important. We have suffered far too long. Our schools in impoverished neighborhoods, shall have all the supplies needed to assist children to reach their optimal potential. We want trained teachers, school counselors, and educational curriculum that work for our students, children, adult learners and educators. We want our top Black professors and educators to draft these curriculum and legislation around furthering and improving our educational systems. Free education for all.

8. Our neighborhoods need a face-lift. There are tons of research that shows how our environment directly impacts our mental health. We want colors, paintings, trees. We want our communities to be vibrant. We want trash pickups, snow removal services, etc., to reach all communities. No community left behind. 

So, while those corporations may be burning and CNN may need to utilize those insured dollars, we want that funding to be allocated to our communities, first.

9. We want access to technology to run efficiently, in all neighborhoods. Internet access to all in America, globally as well.

10. Celebrate June 19th and not July 4th.

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Laws We May Want to Consider:

Police Brutality: Police are sentenced to 50 years to life for killing an unarmed citizen and must pay restitution to the family- Should come from the police union.

Mental health: 4 wellness checks a year (1 50-minute session a quarter) covered under an individual’s health insurance.

Tax dollars: Allocate all funding equally across communities.

-Social Corporate Responsibility: Companies should be demanded to provide services in all communities and their foundation monies and/or charitable proceeds should directly impact their communities that they are located in.

The Ride Or Die Woman

This topic has been floating around on social media and how we wish to disassociate ourselves from this toxic ideology. Wholeheartedly, I agree. Throughout my experience, I’ve watched many women stay by their partner side through disrespect, abuse, and infidelity. There is this new wave of Keyshia Kaoir women and yes, I praised her too, but I am sure she endured a lot. I ask myself, why? Why do we stick around and believe we have to go through hell and back to be with a man and to have true love?  Why do men put us through this emotional turmoil and think saying ‘I love you’ erases the scar of self-doubt their behavior leaves upon our hearts?

The intergenerational impact of the trauma endured by our ancestors often goes unnoticed in this conversation. How can we ignore black families being ripped apart or husbands feeling powerless and acquiescing to another man pleasuring themselves with their love, their wife? When do we begin to value and respect our women? Women who have, for centuries held our communities together when we attacked from all angles? Stood at the front lines alongside their husbands when they demanded fair treatment during the ‘I am A Man’ sanitation workers strike in Memphis? Or, the bartering systems they used when money wasn’t enough in the community to make sure their household could eat? When do we recognize the value and strength in our black women? I applaud Spike Lee for the movie ‘Chi Raq’. The part where women band together and stop having sex and giving men attention was a step in the right direction. While in training at the Department of Youth Services here in D.C, the trainer made a comment that resonated with me. He said, “If women hold men accountable, men will step up to the plate and do what we want because men dress, get money, and drive the cars they do to please women.” I want us all take a minute and sit with that.

Our grandparents for years, well at least mine, stayed in relationships due to men being the bread winner. While discussing my upcoming divorce with many elderly women in the church, a lot of them said well is he taking care of home? My response was, ‘yes he pays the bills. But what about my respect, dignity, and identity?’ I was in disbelief how many women encouraged me to stay with a man who had verbally abused me in any way. Thinking back to my Uncle who lives in Alaska, my first time meeting him in person was 2011. I’ve never met my grandmother, so with him being the oldest child I inundated him with several questions. I wondered was my grandmother ‘strong, brave, and fashionable like me and strict like my mum and aunt?’ He answered the way I knew he would and told me, “Christian, you are a lot like her.” After hearing this from my mom and aunt, and hearing this from someone so close to her, filled my soul with a warm light of happiness. There was one piece of advice I will never forget: he told me, “her eyes were empty and full of pain because the man she loved, loved many women.” From that day forward, I vowed to never stay with a man that can’t practice monogamy or used his money to control me.

Which brings me to the ‘ride or die’ concept. Why do we stay? Why do we put up with lies, cheating, disrespect, abuse, and this coddling of men? I am not writing to bash. I want us to do better. We understand that fatherless homes cause issues. The single mother syndrome leads women to become extremely self-sufficient leaving some men to feel emasculated. There are a few things we can say with certainly. We know that children need stability and androgyny makes for the best human beings. We know that at the end of the day we still need to collaborate. My quest is to find that balance and in finding that balance we can heal a nation.

Poverty Is A Business

I have worked in non-profits over ten years now and my experience has showed me, we are constantly searching for a quick fix. I view it as placing a band-aid over a festering, puncture wound; neglecting to properly address the cause of the wound and properly treat it. Surprisingly, most of the time, individuals in the community non-profits act in service of other people of color. Albeit, I understand the markets I’ve had experience in: Washington, DC, Atlanta, and la Verne and Ontario – have demographics of minorities. Whereas, D.C and Atlanta was comprised of African Americans; in the remaining cities the population was majority Latino and Black - which still counts for the minority. All my experiences have culminated in this fundamental understanding: poverty is a business.

There are wealthy people in Executive positions, in organizations that have been active for decades. Which begs the question: how do they exude generational wealth but only extend the bare minimum to their underserved clients? Simple: poverty is a business. If we devised realistic solutions to heal the socio-economic divides, institutional and systemic racism; disparate access to health care, and break generational curses will these non-profits still exist? Absolutely not. There wouldn’t be ‘social ills’ to raise money to bring awareness to these plights.

Capitalism breeds materialism, there isn’t anything necessarily wrong with desiring quality items. However, I remember one time I was having my clients, teens exiting their childhood and entering adulthood. Their Christmas list consisted of UGGs, iPhone’s, Victoria secret clothing etc., - all items representing a perception of financial stability and inclusion into the ‘cool’ circle. Upon instruction by my supervisor, I coached my clients into asking for gifts $50 and under – limiting their expectations and setting realistic goals. This organization has been running for over 10 years and through my efforts, my budget exceeded our actual needs. We say we want to help and heal our community but how much healing are we willing to do if we don’t promote financial literacy to impoverished communities? Another example is the permanent supportive housing – housing’s first (what kind of model?) model. Shelter is a basic need and corresponds with Maslow hierarchy, but what tools of financial literacy are we giving them while under our care? How are we showing them they can be self-sufficient when bodies in a program equate to the pay you receive for that program to continue to run? Resulting in a ‘Catch 22’.

Some would say well that is materialistic, and I agree getting UGGs, iPhone’s, and Victoria Secret is materialistic, but what about wanting to fit in and what happens at school when you wear knock off clothing? How does that impact the psychological well-being and self-esteem of a person who is already homeless, grappling with self-identity; doesn’t have a support system and is in a program that states they want you to become self sufficient? My answer is confidence. The belief in one’s self is foundation to achieving your goals. It’s the start of setting goals. How can I have a goal and believe it’s attainable if I do not believe I am worthy of what the world has to offer?

Personally, I don’t believe people who have a home to come to, no shortage of food, and stability can fully comprehend this dichotomy. There are times where I truly ask my counterparts of other races, why are you here? Do you truly grasp what the oppressed people are dealing with? I think before we try to assist the oppressed we must understand the nucleus of the problem and extend from there.